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Jess planted 3 trees in memory of Joan Windover
Saturday, February 3, 2024
3 trees were planted in memory of
Joan Windover
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Janice Windover uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, February 6, 2024
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Dear Mama
You were the light in my darkness. You were always there for me when I stumbled in life. You always accepted me as I am no matter what. Your family was always your priority, everything else was secondary.
The bright smile lifted the darkness from my world. You have always guided me with gentle love and conviction that you could help me. I appreciate all that you did for me. In the last 3 years, you, Jon and I had the best times. All the laughter brightened my world. I feel very blessed to have been part of the last 3 years of your life. Right up to the last days when I was there with you, you were still calling my name. I love you so much mama and I will treasure our time together always in my heart. Rest now for you are at peace now. I will see you when I arrive at the gates of heaven.
Love you,
Janice
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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of Joan Windover
Tuesday, February 6, 2024
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Janice Windover uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, February 6, 2024
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Dear Mama
You were the light in my darkness. You were always there for me when I stumbled in life. You always accepted me as I am no matter what. Your family was always your priority, everything else was secondary.
The bright smile lifted the darkness from my world. You have always guided me with gentle love and conviction that you could help me. I appreciate all that you did for me. In the last 3 years, you, Jon and I had the best times. All the laughter brightened my world. I feel very blessed to have been part of the last 3 years of your life. Right up to the last days when I was there with you, you were still calling my name. I love you so much mama and I will treasure our time together always in my heart. Rest now for you are at peace now. I will see you when I arrive at the gates of heaven.
Love you,
Janice
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Anonymous planted a tree in memory of Joan Windover
Monday, February 5, 2024
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Lindsey Windover uploaded photo(s)
Monday, February 5, 2024
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You were everything to me. Helped make me the person I am today. For your love and support I will be forever grateful. Don’t know where I would be without you in my life. Thank you for everything. I miss you so much already. I love you dearly. Until we meet again my Gram, love always Lindsey
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James Bradbury posted a condolence
Sunday, February 4, 2024
I remember as a young man growing up and hanging out with all of the Windover family that Joan was always a happy and loving mother and even with all of the hardships, and not having a lot of nice things, she always had her family and that was enough. Many a time she would have me stay over for dinner even though that did not have a lot of food, she would never let me go home hungry, it may have been spegetti and bear meatballs, but it was delicious and I would never forget it. I will never forget get you. Jim
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Jessica uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, February 3, 2024
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Dear Nana,
As I sit down to write this, words seem too small to encompass what you mean to me, but I find comfort in the thought that you always knew how to listen to the unsaid. You were a beacon of strength and wisdom, yet carried yourself with a humility and kindness that drew people to you. Your presence was a sanctuary of warmth and love, always available for a call, whether it was to share a quick word of advice or to guide me through life’s little challenges, like how to perfectly cook a meal or tackle a stubborn stain (or how to bring my dead house plant back to life).
Your home was an extension of your heart, with its doors always open—literally. I cherished how I could just walk in and be greeted by your voice, filled with love and excitement, calling out, “Hiiiii Jeeesssss,” in a way that made me feel cherished and unique. You taught me the essence of being a strong woman, instilling in me the courage to demand respect and to never settle for less than I deserved. Your wisdom in matters of the heart, valuing character and kindness over material things, has been a guided me in more times than you could believe.
Your excitement for every step I took, big or small, was a testament to your unconditional love and support. You never judged or shamed me for the paths I chose, even when they led me astray. Instead, you were always there with a comforting reminder that setbacks were merely detours, not dead ends, and that life has a way of unfolding as it should.
There's a saying that perfectly captures the essence of your love, "we should all have one person who knows how to bless us despite the evidence. Grandmother was that person to me." – Phyllis Theroux. For me, your love was a unique gift that I never had to work for, a warmth that I doubt I'll ever find again.
I love you, Nana, more than words can explain. Thank you for every moment, every lesson, and every memory. Your spirit lives on in the lives you've touched, and your legacy of strength, kindness, and unconditional love will continue to inspire me every day. Rest in peace, knowing that your love has made all the difference.
With all my love,
Jess
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Joanne Nichols uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, February 3, 2024
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Mom’s favourite poem and words she tried to live by.
Desiderata
The poem tells people to live a peaceful life and strive for happiness.
Go placidly amid the noise and haste,
and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible without surrender
be on good terms with all persons.
Speak your truth quietly and clearly;
and listen to others,
even the dull and the ignorant;
they too have their story.
Avoid loud and aggressive persons,
they are vexations to the spirit.
If you compare yourself with others,
you may become vain and bitter;
for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.
Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble;
it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.
Exercise caution in your business affairs;
for the world is full of trickery.
But let this not blind you to what virtue there is;
many persons strive for high ideals;
and everywhere life is full of heroism.
Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass.
Take kindly the counsel of the years,
gracefully surrendering the things of youth.
Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune.
But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings.
Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.
Beyond a wholesome discipline,
be gentle with yourself.
You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.
Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.
With all its sham, drudgery, and broken dreams,
it is still a beautiful world.
Be cheerful.
Strive to be happy.
— Max Ehrmann, 1927
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jeff windover uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, February 3, 2024
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my mother was strong and wise and it showed in the way she lived her life , she was my confidant and I cherished her wisdom in all our conversations ! She will be missed dearly and will remain in my heart till I see her once again in the afterlife ,RIP mom I love you
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David Schnitzler uploaded photo(s)
Saturday, February 3, 2024
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David Schnitzler uploaded photo(s)
Friday, February 2, 2024
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We will love and miss you momma❤️
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Cathy Rooney posted a condolence
Friday, February 2, 2024
As far as my friends moms went Joan was the “cool” mom. She always invited me into her home and literally treated me like one of her kids. If they got in trouble I got in trouble lol.
But she still always made sure we had snacks after school or a long day of playing outside. Her kindness will never be forgotten. I am blessed to have been able to know her. Our loss is definitely Gods gain. ❤️❤️
Cathy Rooney
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The family of Joan Windover uploaded a photo
Friday, February 2, 2024
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A Memorial Tree was planted for Joan Windover
Wednesday, January 31, 2024
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